is it possible...

for a guy to just be friends with a girl? or a girl just friends with a guy without one or the other starting to like the other one? things that make me go hmmm... me and afriend of mine were debating on this question the other day...soo what do yall think?

It would be tough to just be a friend with a girl with all the hormones and the questions of something that could be but i know the possibility exists.

Yes, it's possible. I'm friends with a bunch of women that I'm not attracted to... at all.

It is possible I agree with arons post

Said By Aron Schatz

Yes, it's possible. I'm friends with a bunch of women that I'm not attracted to... at all.

so u believe like i do that it is possible to be friends and nether of you ever have feelns for another

Said By Legato

Said By Aron Schatz

Yes, it's possible. I'm friends with a bunch of women that I'm not attracted to... at all.

so u believe like i do that it is possible to be friends and nether of you ever have feelns for another

Yeah I do believe this and why do ya ask?

Dude, I have like 40 girl-friends.

I just chill with them and go to the mall.

And i feel no relationship connection with them.

But the girl and the guy both have to not be shy and the girl most of the times in order to be friends with a guy has to be a tomboy.

is it possible? Yes it is possible for a girl & a guy to be friends & they don't have to be a tomboy but tomboys are better being friends with a guy say for exp me i'm a tomboy but i have more guy friends then any other girl i know & i don't like any of them that way just as they don't like me that way & some of my friends that are girls & not tomboys like me can be friends with guys with out likeing them in any way trust me i'm the kind of girl who has had a lot of frind & i know what i'm talking about.

& this & some of this & bam.

You like that shift button, aye?

Well yes, tomboys do have more of a chance of beholding a relationship with a male above any other genre, may I say, of girl

Yes this is very true i hang with guys because there fun to be around but yet i have my girl friends who are there for me to guy are awsome!

But, after a while a close relationship with someone can turn into a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship even if you are a tomboy.

I've seen it happen many times.

Well thats a good point but when it comes down to me it never happns well at less to me it dosen't.

well....you know i think its true you can be friends with a girl without any attraction but you have to remember alot of people like to be friends with the opposite sex FIRST so they get to know i know for a fact alot of guys do that now but still your right it is possible just to be friends with the girl

It's simpl just be you don't fall for you friend don't make them thing theres any thing there.

Said By Sakamae

It's simpl just be you don't fall for you friend don't make them thing theres any thing there.

you must be a younger person arent you? your plan sounds good in your head but in real life sometimes its not as easy

Yes i may be yung as in 18 but my plan is very simpl & it's not hard at all i do it all the time.

perhaps...but diffrent things work for diffrent people also.

It isn't easy if the other person is attracted to you. You might not have the same feelings.

I will say that guys are usually attracted to good looking females, regardless of the situation. If you're pretty, a majority of guys will be attracted to you, period. It is the way the male brain works, I guess.

Well i see were you guys are geting at buti gusse guys just see me as a friend not as a girl that they would ever go out with but then again i'm a tomboy who likes hanging with guys so... What is your guys plan then?

some guys try to be friends with girls to get in there pants later on. or some do it just becuz they like that girl and want to get to know them before askn them out also true like some said already.. i agree with aron that is like animal instinct or well male instinct i guess to be attracted to pretty girls.. that doesnt mean the first thing that runs through are head is sex with them though mind you. i still think guys and gals can be friends though without physical attraction and stuff

I wish that i could say that it's true for me but it's not guys just like being my friends. Trust me Legato if you ever meet me you would just want to be friends with me just like every other guy i know.

dont belittle yourself. relationships are...unpredictable sometimes

I know they are but i'm telling you the truth guys just see me as a friend.

All my close friends are guys... a few of them are my exs though. >>; But some of them arent, and i'm hoping to keep it that way. Except me and one of them constantly flirt, but theres no chance we'll be more. But i'm fine with that.

i say its impossible. i got lots girl friends. its that fun anyway because i alwasys have to go to the mall and carry there bags........too much info but i do like them all

I'm starting to think that it's not possible unless the other person is gay and because most guys don't know how to be friends with girls without them not wanting to get their penis and/or any other insertable appendage involved. That's generally speaking of course or maybe because I live around the wrong guys :unno:

It's possible i'm telling you don't have to be gay or any thing i have lot of guy friends but i don't like then & they don't like me in that way.

bad part is sometimes they like you and you never know. some people still want others to be happy in life so that other person guy or girl never says what he or she truly thinks or feels for the other. not sure if i agree with people who do this or not. by not telln they arent happy themselfs, but by telln they either break up a relationship, or lose the one they already had with that person. onces someone drops a bomb on you like that you cant pretend you didnt ever hear it. the choices we make in life echo through eternity.

I understand but..... I know that if i had feelings for some one the rson i don't tell them is because i would much rather be friends with them then not to be friends with them.

Yes.

I have a friend named Kya, a very good friend of mine, we have never gone out, we've never thought of going out, we haven't even talked much to each other about our relationships. Me and her are like sisters (yes i said sisters on purpose) and I see no further future for us besides begin friends.